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Why not take a moment to define success before you pursue it?

 

This is a random collection of all the things I wish I could tell to those of you who are in school. But you will probably have to learn it all for yourselves‘.

Am I going to be successful?

Great question. This is a question that seems to be the hidden question behind most of the questions I get asked. And the answer is you probably will be successful but probably won‘t come in the form you’re imaging. Not even close. But when you realize it’s happened you’ll look up and it will feel good and it will be fulfilling.

 

Oh really? Then so if you know so much then how will I become successful?

The mad dash to be successful has probably already started for you. You’re sending your books out and you’re working to land a job in the same agencies that everybody else is trying to get into. I recently heard somebody say they had sent out 300 resumes. That’s the old shotgun approach. In school you probably learned not to take that approach but it just seems smart. Ups the odds and all. And it’s easy now with e-mail. You dont even have to lick all those envelopes. Yet I would suggest that this is the very worst way to land a job and more importantly it is ignoring the whole reason we got into this conversation. Success.

 

Wait. How am I supposed to be successful without a job?

I hate to answer a question with a question but what is you definition of success? A first job can be one of two things. A step toward success or a step away from success. But have you sat down to search your soul for the answer to what would be success for you? Your personal definition. A unique answer. We all get caught up with other people’s definition of success and societies' definition of success that we lose our own. This is not good.

Why do I need to define success?

Because there is really only one definition that is put forward by society at large. Money. Ass loads of money. Don’t get me wrong here i think money is great. I like it a lot. But if you have the same definition as everybody else then you’re competting directly against everybody else. If you begin to refine you definition of success you suddenly begin to compete in a smaller category. So if you define success as living in Hawaii doing wordl class work for international surf brands you suddenly have two very important advantages to success. First, you aren’t competing with 99.9 percent pof the advertsing world out there. Second, it is instantly so much easier to measure you progress. My definition of success was to live in Miami and work with people I loved doing work I was proud of. And that’s all it’s ever been. So I felt successful pretty early on in my career.

But you live in Boulder.

Yes good catch. The only change to that original definition would be to live in Boulder.

A definition like I had sometimes meant saying no to more money. Yet over the years it seems like the pursuit of something other than money has ultimately brought lots of money. I remember the first time somebody congratulated me on achieving “their” definition of success. Which usually is some mixture of fame and fortune. How does it feel? They ask. It feels exactly the same as it has always felt. Because I thought I was successful a long, long time ago. Was I wrong?

 

Probably, but who cares I guess.

Exactly. Maybe success for you is to lend your talents to a lot of probono work. Maybe success for you would be to have your own shop. Maybe it’s to help grow a small shop. Maybe it’s to…

 

I get it so how do I define success for myself?

Realize you are already making progress. It won’t feel like it but it is happening. I don’t know why it’s like that but the first person perspective of ones own career is glacier like in it’s pace. Yet at the same time when you look back it’s all happened much faster than you ever realized.

Be honest. Be respectful. Be good. Set positive goals for yourself that can benefit lot’s of people. You’ll have lot’s of support because what’s good for you is good for them. Some people think they have to knock somebody else to get into a top spot. I’ve know people that thought they needed to knock me down to get up the ladder. It rarely works that way because there is infinite room for success and you’ll just get distracted from your true goals.

Don't exaggerate. Don't complicate. Very humble versions of success can lead to a wonderful life adventure. You don’t have to make it seem grand for it to become grand as it becomes reality.

Simplify. I think two sentences should be enough to hold your life’s professional dream.

 

So what do I do once I have a personal definition of success and a job too?

 

Okay. Once you are working you are in for a great ride because an agency is a busy place and there is always too much to do. For those who have ambition that means there is always a chance to grow and learn because people are always looking for somebody to pawn some work off onto. All you have to do is be there and get it done right. Getting it right is the key.

So don't just have questions. Have answers too. This is a simple one but so many people get it wrong it’s got to be said. It is okay to get stuck and okay to not know the best way to do something and it is okay to ask questions. But it is not okay to not at least try to figure it out and have several thoughts on how you think you should handle it before you speak to your supervisor. Three options is a good rule to go by. A guy that worked for me who I always loved interacting with taught me he was doing this. Today he owns his own agency.

Don't ever believe there is only one answer. There are literally millions. It’s a beginners mistake to think there is one right answer. Or that a great answer doesn’t have an even greater solution if you keep thinking. Some people make this beginners mistake for their entire career. So have lots of ideas. And make multiple leaps of logic. And then test your theories. Be linear when necessary but remember great thinking is not linear.

Make shit up. All great things were pulled from an ass before they became accepted. All the greatest discoveries began with somebody pulling something out of their ass. Great asses. The world isn’t flat. There is a force called gravity. People can govern themselves. Great ass born ideas indeed. All the thinking CP+B was first pulled from an ass and then refined and tested and refined and tested.

Be bold and cautious in waves that last a couple hours each.

Don't expect anyone else to be responsible for who you are or what you do.

The best people in the business are really decent people. All the awful backstabbing people you hear about are not the best people. They are all very average. And that kind of thing will never take you past being average.

Advertising is rife with awardshows. I’m not sure there is any other industry so set on awarding themselves. and many of you are anxious to win one. And many of you will. And guess what? It won’t make any difference to how you feel the next day. And the next ad you have to do will not be any easier. You won’t be any smarter. Now your careers might dramatically change. Maybe even for the better. But here’s how awards ruin a lot of budding careers. Listen closely because a lot of you will face this and very few of you will make the right decision. You’re at a place that for some reason let something wonderful out the door. Something new and good is going on. Or maybe the agency has a long history of doing good work. So you win an award and right away you get lots of offers. Lot’s of offers to go places for big money. But these places haven’t done any good work since the seventies. But this is you. You can turn things around. They have a hot new CD there. So you go. And a couple years later you realize you’ve become handcuffed by the salary so you stay but you never do anything anybody cares about for the next fifteen years until you are fired as a has been at the age of 40 with nothing to show to anybody that would get you hired. This is a real story that happens every day.

Your resume and your work is your insurance policy.

Finally, have fun. If you’re not having fun you’re doing it wrong. So use your internal fun meter to alert you to the need to make changes. Lot’s of small changes are better  than great big ones. So figure out ways to have fun and stay on path wthout having to change jobs all the time. The most successful people I know are very rarely the people with a zillion jobs.

Moving around is fine but when it becomes a habit it usually means something else is probably in need of adjustment.

Here’s to your success.

 

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Comments (49)

Sep 27, 2009
Dennis Eusebio said...
Great post. I can't say I was given this advice coming out of school but learned it the hard way through the first couple of years. Glad that others might be able avoid that whole period and find their success faster.
Sep 27, 2009
Erica Nardello said...
Thanks - I'm graduating in January & it's nice to read something encouraging and motivating before getting out in the real world.
Sep 27, 2009
copytuan said...
inspiring post. message received.
Sep 27, 2009
1AdamBrooks said...
great advice for an individual attempting to reach their definition of success, written by a man who has accomplished his
Sep 27, 2009
André Galhardo said...
Gotta go back to Rio de Janeiro... São Paulo sucks. What about living there for a while, Alex? ;)
Sep 27, 2009
amruts said...
Great article - especially for a student like me. I will be bookmarking this one
Sep 27, 2009
LaneKARCH said...
Great post. Fits well to lessons here at the Brandcenter. Hope that CU degree is hanging pretty on the wall.
Sep 27, 2009
 said...
it´s good to read it on sunday beacuase now I have more reassons to go back to the office tomorrow. thanks man.
Sep 27, 2009
 said...
Take a moment to see if your are happy with your work.
Sep 28, 2009
Hansby said...
Really good post! I'll take it with me for a long long time. Thanks!
Sep 28, 2009
abarro said...
good advise, finding happiness in the work I always deram of should be easy, but it turns out that it is not
Sep 28, 2009
Dmitry Ulyanov said...
Thanks, something to come back to for inspiration, when other's expectations blur your vision on what you really want to be. Success on your own terms is the only success worth wanting, true! On the other hand, it's not like when you've defined your own criteria, the path stays clear and joyful forever. In reality the noise of society's criteria and expectations can really get you off track and that's why I'll keep this piece text in my pocket, just like I have Hoopla on my table - to come back to when I start thinking that I'm the crazy one while eveybody else is right.

Dmitry
Moscow. Russia

Sep 28, 2009
Megan Williams said...
Great post...applicable even outside the field of advertising.
Sep 28, 2009
Patrick Scullin said...
Terrific advice for beginners and vets of the working life. Thanks.
Got a dollop of job hunting advice @ http://bit.ly/RtgjN
Sep 28, 2009
david ross said...
I would add that defining success doesn't need to be etched in stone. as someone grows and and their experiences changes them, so too can
their definition of success.
Sep 28, 2009
Samuel McGuire said...
Great, Simplify!

I'm reminded by friends that have had grandiose ideas about their future. They would say things like "I want to make great movies" where the people that I've actually seen do great things would take a different approach to the previous quote: "I have a specific idea for a movie, I am going to make it, and I haven't spent too much time pondering how successful it might be." It seems the difference would be one person is powered by ego/money and the other would be powered by a specific-internal-fun-meter.

Sep 28, 2009
_bradhall said...
I'm remembering when you came to BYU and gave us all a lot of advice along these same lines. Its made a lot of difference in my direction these last couple years. For me, money isn't worth giving up success anymore - :) thanks for the little paradigm shift.
Sep 28, 2009
Fiorella Liv said...
Inspiring words.
Sep 28, 2009
colinmurphy said...
Great article especially for us youngsters entering the working world. But I do conflict with how it easy it seems to achieve success no matter what your definition is. Personally I have had a hard time getting my feet moving forward toward my goals and I think in part it is due to uncontrollable factors. I feel the economy has effected companies by minimizing the amount of opportunities to hire or even bring in as an intern. This then trickles down to people like me trying to get a chance to take a swing in the batter's box. Therefore making it easier to give up.

Now I feel that in order to achieve success or a path to it, everyone must walk through the jungle at times, which is why I am not giving up. But in reading this article one must not forget that even Alex probably sweat through the night at a point in his ascension.

Sep 28, 2009
Alex Bogusky said...
You probably dont have to search very far to find a comment from me on the value of hard work. There is no substitute. Yet how is it some poeple seem to have the capacity to work so much harder than others. Would they work that way no matter what they did? in my own case I assure you this is not the case. Having had multiple jobs outside of advertsing I was a fairly lackluster employee and never asked for overtime.This idea of easy vs not easy is interesting and I address it but not head on. I would suggest that if easy means a 9 to 5 approach then it will never be easy. But if easy means having fun and enjoying life as you spend countless hours doing what you love then your own personal definition of success can help make that journey a lot easier.
Sep 28, 2009
excellent post and definitely a breath of fresh air. you explored success in many different terms and how it relates to many different people. we are also believers in defining personal success and too often ignore our own accomplishments trying to live up to a generalized definition of what it means to have "made it" not realizing we are "making it" day by day.

thank you for sharing your thoughts and will pass this along to others :)

Sep 28, 2009
colinmurphy said...
Based on your comment Alex, when and why did you make that switch from hardly working to working hard?
Sep 28, 2009
Alex Bogusky said...
Because I found a passion and working hard suddenly gave me the same feeling as playing hard.
Sep 28, 2009
JACK said...
Hey Alex totally unrelated to this post but I found your bike.
http://miami.craigslist.org/mdc/bik/1348269905.html
Sep 28, 2009
mikeymioduski said...
"Yet over the years it seems like the pursuit of something other than money has ultimately brought lots of money." I really enjoyed the post sir, especially this line. Another great and quotable thinker of our time, Nas, said it only slightly differently on illmatic, "When it's real, you're doing this even without a record contract."
Sep 28, 2009
Priya Singh said...
Don't you think the success goal post keeps moving & changing? For instance, when I first started out in advertising (many eons ago), what I defined as success, I wouldn't want today even if it were handed to me on a platter. Except the money part…that I would take :P

I think what John Lennon said of life could be true of success too…it’s what happens while you’re making other plans. Just as long as you’re planning, and more importantly, doing great stuff.

Sep 29, 2009
Chris Spada said...
Great post Alex, I found that this article resonates with me as a designer early in my career. Getting my start during the worst economic crisis our country has seen in decades has shifted my focus from financial security to taking great pride in things that can't be bought like having great co-workers and having awesome projects to work on. I think that those are what really pushes your career along.

Keep up the good work

Sep 29, 2009
Rick Standley said...
Spot on.
All true.
Lovin' your work.

I'm sure you've seen it already but if not, this is worth a watch on the subject of success:
http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/alain_de_botton_a_kinder_gentler_philosophy_of_success.html

Sep 29, 2009
It's reassuring to hear that good people can rise to the top. Backstabbing is not something that I can do.

Thanks for the inspiration

Sep 29, 2009
 said...
Hi Alex, I am a senior hightech sales executive. What's take go to do with advertising? Everything. It's about passion. It's about writng your own headlines and driving them unitl they become reality. It's about creating new ways to to do things and selling your ideas against all odds. Probably your most poignant comment was the breaktrough of when working hard made you feel the same way as playing hard.

The only thing I would add is to realize that you learn more from your faliures than you do from your successes and you never really fail until you give up. - Good work.

Sep 29, 2009
joeyz101 said...
Mr. Bogusky, thank you.

I just left my corporate gig to pursue a career in advertising as a Copywriter. I'm a big tennis fan and the great advice you gave reminds me a lot of the advice I hear from Rafael Nadal.

"Be honest. Be respectful. Be good. Set positive goals for yourself that can benefit lot’s of people."
"No substitute for hard work"
"Find passion in your work"
"Define your own success"

I am happy to read such great advice from someone at the top of this game. Everything is simple, nothing worthwhile is easy.

Joe
http://joeyz101.blogspot.com

Sep 29, 2009
chloepro said...
Thanks Alex, this is just the post I want to share with my 12 year old daughter. I am going to print it out, wall paper it on her ceiling so every night when she gets off of her computer and looks up at the "sky" she can be a little bit closer to realizing her dreams whatever they may be and wherever they may take her.
Sep 29, 2009
Alex Bogusky said...
Wow. Thanks for posting this comment. It's the ultimate compliment to say you would share these words with your kids.
Sep 29, 2009
idFarmer said...
How wonderful! Just 15 minutes ago I went to draw out my mental melt down. (if you want to see it: http://www.flickr.com/photos/idfarmer/3967332161/sizes/o/ ) This was incredibly helpful. Thank you for adding value.
Sep 29, 2009
Alex Bogusky said...
I like your metldown flicker image. And i loved the questions you were asking yourself. It seems to me work is the most accesible thing humans have yet developed for learning truths about themselves. And the things you're drawn to tend to me the things that teach you the most. It might be carpentry or it might be advertising. What you do matters less than how you do it.
Sep 29, 2009
Zoe Lamont said...
This is terrific Alex, thanks. As a business coach and moreso into social development I am constantly balancing my own and encouraging people to define their own meaning of success. It is great to hear perspectives around this in the conversation and receiving so much interest too. Imagine if (and when!!) the majority starts seeing success as when one's happy, inspired and measured on how many people you help and how often you smile, instead of what's in your bank account.. Perhaps then this is what we'd create more of!! ;) thanks again, fab
Sep 30, 2009
matsrydin said...
Very inspirational, I don't know you, but it is so reassuring to hear that you don't have to be a backstabber or an a-hole to be successful in this business - au contraire. I'd much rather be a friend than an enemy to my coworkers, partners and clients.
Sep 30, 2009
lol
Sep 30, 2009
Do what you love. Simple. Well Said. Props, Alex.
Sep 30, 2009
 said...
Great post about defining your success
Sep 30, 2009
 said...
Great post about how to define your own success
Sep 30, 2009
Shawn Malhotra said...
Alex,

Great post! I'm currently a graduating senior at UMD getting into the advertising game. I have got to say that this entry simply "gets it". Very insightful outlook of defining success.

Thanks for fortifying my motivation.

Sep 30, 2009
ganjagoblins said...
This post was breathtaking for me. It comes at a perfect moment in my life and from someone i truly respect.
Oct 02, 2009
anibalcasso said...
"Find something that you love and you won't have to work a day in your life"... that's been my motto for a quite a while. The journey hasn't been easy but coming from a place where achieving what you wanted/dreamed was more about having a set of street smart-ish skills instead of a degree, I have to admit that your post hits right at the center of my heart. Success is definitely relative and to get it you might need to work hard. Now, working hard have never killed anyone (that I know at least), but it is much better when what you do is something you don't refer to it as work.

Couple of weeks ago I shared this post at a talk I had at NYU and I have to say they were as enlightened as I was the first time I read it. They certainly had different definitions of what success was but, the bottom line, was the same: doing something that makes you happy.

Thanks Alex,

BTW - just finished Baked In... awesome! Cheers for you and John!

Oct 08, 2009
davidsaxe said...
At the risk of having my man card revoked, I gotta say you've been a huge inspiration to me in my career. I'm still young in my career and soaking stuff up left and right, trying to figure out how best I can serve this business and it can serve me.
Wanted to share, not at all to promote, but because of the timeliness of your post - I just added a blog post earlier this week titled "Love What You Do: It's Not Just Idealism". http://bit.ly/kT6BZ I reference a video interview you gave with Kevin Kelly.
I think I would've interpreted your post as idealism spoken from a talented guy who caught a lot of breaks right when I got out of school. Definitely learning the wisdom in this more everyday. Really appreciate your willingness to post and share what's on your brain.
Oct 09, 2009
rnauta said...
Great advice Alex. Something to share with my oldest son.
Just talked to your Dad today.
Take care.
Oct 24, 2009
iblogforlove said...
Yo Alex.... I love your post... and I'm-a gonna let you finnish... but do you think the latest Microsoft spots are a bit below the bar creatively?

When you talk about success, I understand, financial success is a great thing, and I've achieved nowhere near what you have... But it's like a good restaurant. I love your stuff. I love your menu. Yet when you start serving Macaroni & Cheese next to the beautiful 10 course degustation (the burger king stuff... oh the irony) do you think you're lowering your product standards?

I love your stuff. From what my friends have said, you're an inspirational and great guy to deal with. But I was expecting some great stuff for Winda's 7 and... honestly thought the mac vs pc stuff was better.

Absolutely no offense meant, would love your opinion, obviously publicly you need to back the spots given they're backing you guys financially. Just would have thought if anyone was up to the task of making PC's appear better than the crap boxes they are, it definitely would have been you.

Oct 24, 2009
iblogforlove said...
I do love your philosophy. Follow success rather than your dreams, as you never know where success may lead you.
Jan 13, 2010
 said...
Every teacher of mine, from Mariucci o DeVito, told me this as job advice. Money should be the last thing. Nobody wants to be paid to rot.

Cheers.

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